What are my chances of making up ?

why is it that after 3 years and a baby that is only just 17 months old .....why has she ditched me got herself a new b/f in less then 2 weeks of us spliting on mutal grounds. why has she had me warned for sending txts of asking to reconsillaite and showing love and feelings for her and my baby. why has she not talked spoken to me txted called anything for 16 weeks now. also she has not lt me see the baby for 17 weeks for no reasons she has strpied me of my home my life my family only to be forced back to my parents in a small room living out of a suitcase ?? why has she done this to me. also i have applied to see my baby asked the mother for reconsillation and meditation and she rufuses all the above the relationship was very loving and caring no voilence or abuse anything she even kept on asking me to get married to her and have more kids and no thats not the reason we split cause i hadnt married her yet it was comming this summer so any help